I love my friends, I really do. But sometimes they are so clueless it hurts.
Last Sunday they threw me a not so surprise birthday party (because Im pretty sure they forgot about my actual birthday) and at the end of the night one of my new friends who has always been nice to me but more so recently asked me out to go watch a movie with his brother and his brother’s fiance.
Turns out I went to school with his brother and future sister in law. In fact his future sister in law and I used to be friends. So we talked about catching a movie with them on the weekend and I said I really wanted to watch “The Wind Rises”. After we agreed on it a third friend invited himself and his girlfriend.
During the course of yesterday and after I came back to my apartment to be able to go out with them (leaving yet another weekend without seeing my sisters and nephews) it turns out into a bunch of people thing. Like the guy that invited himself kept inviting other people. This other people were also friends of mine but what it started like a 4 people kind of thing with old friends from high school it turned into a college people hang out. Then my college friends decided to get together before the movie to play board games and cards and stuff. Then the car from the guy who first asked me out broke down and his brother said he couldn’t make it, so I say I would just meet them at the movies going by bus and getting back with a ride.
Then somehow when my friends are all together they decide to go to another cinema that I cant go by bus and only let me know when I call before going out to take the bus … they then canceled out of the blue cause car was full and I guess at some point they might have realized it was all my idea in the beginning, or maybe they were having too much fun without me.
So now somehow I dont get to see my sisters and Im all alone with sucky feelings cause of other stuff and I also dont get to go out see the movie I wanted to see.
Do they not know that my biggest fear in the world is feeling like this ?
They say what we fear most have already happened to us and I guess they are right.I have an irrational fear of being left out , abandoned, forgotten or even worst … replaced.
So basically my friends crashed my day, made my plans theirs and then they had fun without me.
Cosmo, you sexist piece of shit.
Oh boo. There’s Wanda, his wife, grinning evilly in the background as he’s saying it.
Besides, context is important. Remember what this episode was? "Queen for a Day." The one with Trixie Tang’s birthday?
The entire point of Wanda hitting Timmy with this wish was to teach a moral to him. Timmy was hitting a mental roadblock trying to come up with a birthday present for Trixie, not having a clue what “a girl” would want for her birthday. Cue the wish forcing him into a female body and… Still pretty much liking the exact same stuff. And as he later found out, Trixie liked the same things he did, even if gender norms didn’t fit for it all.
In the end, Timmy ends up giving Trixie the present she wanted in a comic book store, but fakes getting upset over it when he gives it to her because her friends thought it was only for boys. But, she WAS grateful.
And this moment? This right here? Our male protagonist, Timmy, is now getting playfully mocked by Cosmo for suddenly being a girl. That’s going to teach boys, through the eyes of Timmy, how stupid it is to be demeaning to females for being female.
This episode was basically a giant slap in the face to the idea of gender norms. And you’re still calling Cosmo sexist for reinforcing the moral, which is how stupid even casual sexism is?
Childhood is firmly not ruined, thank you.
No, Thank YOU !
I am no longer even talking with the person I was flirting with (which means this dreams are not happening as a self sabotage kind of thing) and to be honest I think I like being single cause freedom and such (plus denial) but that doesn’t stop my weird dream self from wanting some.
Why the fuck do I keep having this types of dreams with this person?
Sadly this person is no longer a stranger so now its kind of awkward for me. Even if I know there is no way they know about my dreams … I KNOW!
BTW, did I forget to say that I think this person dislikes me ?
Thanks brain, for picking the less available person on the planet to make me have my first consensual sex dreams with.
If my brain were a person I would beat the crap out of it right now.
whats perfect about jack harkness is he doesnt hit on everyone because he has low standards he just really thinks everyone is hot
#always remember #no matter who you are #or where you are #or what you think of yourself #captain jack harkness thinks you’re hot #and would most likely #should the oppurtunity present itself #fuck you